Tuesday, January 30, 2018

"My child is my whole world"



A Queensland mother thought she had lost 'her whole world' when she received a call saying her daughter had been left in hot bus for over an hour.


A good mother with little Violet

Lisa Easton recalled the horrifying moment she was told her 16-month-old child had been forgotten about during Tuesday's 30 degree day.

The distraught mother raced to Goodstart Early Learning Parkwood to find her daughter 'spaced out' and suffering from symptoms of dehydration, Gold Coast bulletin reports.

Ms Easton said she went into panic mode after receiving the call. 'She (the childcare worker) called me and said, 'I'm sorry Lisa I have done something terrible, I left Violet on the bus for a long time I'm so sorry', after those words I went into a complete panic attack.'

She claimed staff had made no attempt to seek medical help for the one-year-old, and instead placed her in a high chair and gave her a sandwich. 

The mother rushed Violet to hospital where she was treated for severe dehydration.

The ordeal, described as an 'accident or injury' in an incident report, left the mother 'traumatised' and too emotionally scarred to return to her job, which she had only recently started.

'I'm just shocked, because I put my complete trust in these people and I didn't even think something like this could ever happen,' she said. 'It was such a close call to losing everything, my child is my whole world.'

She said her daughter had been picked up by the same bus and driver at 8.30am like any other day, and she couldn't understand what went so wrong on Tuesday.

Since the incident, Violet has been behaving 'very clingy', with the mother having sought legal advice and filed complaints with various departments.

Even more horrific, she has received an invoice for the day of the incident.

Police are investigating the childcare worker responsible, who has been suspended from the centre, according to manager Lesley Jones.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5315729/Childcare-worker-leaves-baby-locked-hot-bus-hour.html



Monday, January 29, 2018

Two gorgeous little boys have lost their mother



It is so unjust. Little boys need their mother



Five days before Sara Chivers died in a sunlit Melbourne hospice room on the morning of January 28, her family gathered at her bedside to toast her with pizza and a bottle of Grange.

“We thought she was going then,” says her mother, Helen Clark.

But Sara, 34, hung in until Sunday.

Her toughness was no surprise to those who loved her. If anyone could pull off a challenge, it was Sara, the Melbourne mother-of-two whose letter to her sons Hugh, now 3, and Alfie, 21 months, as she was facing her mortality last October made global news and did what she wanted it to do, raise money and awareness for brain cancer.

Waking on her daughter’s last day, Helen – sleeping at the hospice with the rest of the family, Sara’s father Adrian, brother Mike and sister Stephanie – kissed her forehead and said hello. Then Sara stopped breathing.

“It was a privilege to be there,” says Helen. “It was actually really, really beautiful. Hard to believe, but it was.”

Her engineer husband Leigh Chivers, 34, who had been at home with Hugh, arrived soon after to be with his wife.

“When she did pass, after an hour or two she looked like she did on our wedding day,” he says.

“All her features really came out. She looked so young.”

Diagnosed with three incurable brain tumours last March – she had previously fought the disease in 2008 – the marketing executive was still absorbing her death sentence when the next hammer blow fell.

In a rare and shocking coincidence, in September Alfie was also diagnosed with brain cancer.

Facing the unimaginable galvanised Sara. Wanting to leave her boys a tangible legacy, she publicised her reality in the hope it would open government purses and find a cure in time to help Alfie.

“He needs me to champion his cause,” she said. “He needs me to keep on living.”

Sara and Leigh turned to fundraising, and in December, Alfie was on his wheelchair-bound mum’s knee when she presented The Project’s Carrie Bickmore with a cheque for over $60,000 for her brain cancer charity, the money all raised in months.

Palliative care is no place for a young mother who had run half marathons and moved to London solo for work. Sara turned it into her private HQ; increasingly unable to talk, she welcomed friends with cakes and coffee, and wept with disbelief seeing her story in Vogue in a copy the magazine expressed to her as time ran out.

“Even in the last weeks when she was struggling to talk and couldn’t walk, she still managed to laugh,” says her friend Mia Greves.

“No, it was more of a roar! I’m grateful that cancer didn’t rob her of that. My mate Sara was still there.”

https://thenewdaily.com.au/news/people/2018/01/29/sara-chivers-dies/